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Prepared to Worship

I have gone to a lot of church services in my lifetime. And if I had to try to guess which passage from Scripture I had heard more than any other this would certainly be one of the candidates:

I was glad when they said unto me, “Let us go to the house of the LORD.” Psalm 122:1

It is a popular refrain that often comes from the stage, whether it is in an opening prayer, before the singing, or in the middle of a sermon. But, as usual, I have a confession to make. Out of the thousands of times that I have stepped into a church building in my lifetime I think that the percentage of times that I could honestly characterize my attitude with Psalm 122:1 would be embarrassingly low.

Jesus told the woman at the well in the fourth chapter of John that “…the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth; for the Father is seeking such to worship Him” (v. 23). What often comes to mind when we read this is the question of what it looks like to worship in spirit and truth. Certainly that is an important question to ask ourselves in response to Jesus’ statement. However, there is another simple truth that is given to us in the verse that we sometimes rush past without much thought. That is, God is simply looking for true worshipers.

What is a true worshiper? Perhaps we have tried so hard to define proper worship that we have lost the primary idea behind Jesus’ words. Maybe a true worshiper is simply a person who truly wants to worship. That speaks nothing of the outward form, but speaks volumes of the inward motivations.

Sometimes we have the tendency to act as if worship is dependent more on God, or even on other people around us, than on our own personal choices, attitudes and heart. I have sat in corporate worship many times and waited for God to do something. Yet, when I consider this aspect of true worshipers I realize that during those times God was most likely sitting in our corporate worship waiting for me to do something. Since God is seeking people to worship Him it is up to me to decide to be one of those worshipers that He is seeking.

In Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians we find out that the worship services were starting to get disorderly. It is easy to read Paul’s corrections and feel a little critical of the Corinthians, and perhaps a little proud of ourselves. After all, we have become pretty good at ordering our worship services. What was the source of their disorderliness? It was their enthusiasm for worship. Paul noted, “Whenever you come together, each of you has a psalm” (1 Cor 14:26). The Corinthians were showing up to church ready to worship. They were so eager to contribute that they needed a little help figuring out how to organize things. I am afraid that we have developed the exact opposite problem. We come to church so dependent on how we have organized things that we feel no need to prepare to worship.

When James tells us to draw near to God and He will draw near to us he immediately instructs us to wash our hands and purify our hearts (see James 4:8). When the author of Hebrews tells us to draw near to God with a sincere heart he immediately tells us to have our hearts, conscience, and bodies cleansed (see Hebrews 10:22). Worship is a process of drawing near to God, and that process requires preparation on our part.

This is not something that developed in the New Testament. In the Old Testament when the high priest entered into the Inner Court he washed his hands at the Lavers, gave his sin offering at the Brazen Altar, and washed his entire body at the Molten Sea (Exodus 30:19-21). The pattern of preparation has always been there. Now our high priest is Jesus the Son of God. Therefore we can boldly approach the throne of grace through Him (Hebrews 4:16). So, there is no longer a ritualistic preparation that is required. However, a preparation of the heart remains.

Every individual believer that walks into a church carries a personal responsibility to prepare oneself for worship. Do we take that seriously?

We require the individuals who take part in leading us in worship to prepare. That list of people will look different in various churches depending on the size, style and tradition of the church. But it may include people running sound, lights, cameras and media. It may include a choir, ensemble and small orchestra. It most likely includes a preacher. And may also include some sort of moderator, reader, and officiant. There is a chance that greeters, ushers, shuttle drivers, golf cart drivers and/or others have helped get people into the sanctuary and seated in a pleasant and efficient manner. Someone unlocked the church that morning. Someone may have prepared coffee. Someone cleaned the sanctuary at least once since the week before.

We take all of these things for granted. In fact, if we are honest with ourselves we have pretty high expectations about all of these things. Some areas may be tolerated more than others. But the truth is that if any one of these people came into church grossly unprepared we would be appalled. We would inquire to make sure it wouldn’t happen again. If it became a pattern we would call some sort of really important sounding meeting. And if it was still not resolved we would start thinking about looking for a new church. And I am describing those of us who would take the patient approach. I am not saying that service leaders should stop preparing. But I am saying this, who am I to demand those things from my church and then turn around and not even prepare myself for worship?

I suspect that if I could shout out Psalm 122:1 with congruence things might look differently for me throughout the week. I would probably find myself looking forward to Sunday morning as soon as Monday afternoon. I think that I would be meditating on Scriptures that testify to the goodness of God throughout the week. I believe I would be humble enough to examine myself daily in order to remove any obstacles that stood between me and God. I would probably have my clothes picked out by Friday afternoon and ironed by Friday night. I would be setting out breakfast by Saturday evening and itching to get to bed. I would rise early on Sunday morning excited to take part in the worship service for which I had been praying all week. Is that how our week looks? Is that the attitude we carry into worship? If you can say yes to that I am so grateful for you. But for the rest like me perhaps it is time that we recognize our own hypocrisy.

What would it look like if a church caught such a vision in a unified way? I would love to step into a worship service once in my life where everyone in the room had spent the week preparing for worship. I imagine that if someone stood on the stage in that service and shouted out, “I was glad when they said unto me, let us go to the house of the Lord,” that it would not sound like another churchy cliche. I think it would sound like Heaven coming down to earth. If we took the time to prepare ourselves for worship that might be exactly what happens.

21 comments on “Prepared to Worship

  1. KlarionKall
    March 20, 2012

    “I would love to step into a worship service once in my life where everyone in the room had spent the week preparing for worship” That hits it on the head, I think worship leaders want that too!

    • Jonathan Stone
      March 20, 2012

      Absolutely, Thomas. It would be a beautiful thing to experience.


  2. Hi, Johathan.
    Great thoughts on preparing for worship. Your honesty and transparency allows the reader to see the importance of the truth you are sharing. It is so true that the attitude we bring to congregational worship must be nurtured through a lifestyle of worship. We are only truly prepared for corporate worship when we have already been living in an attitude of worship throughout the week. Our blog has several posts about worship that you and your blog followers might be interested in readiing. We had just placed some information on the ChoralNet Ministers of Worship community forum last night about our worship posts and will copy it here:

    Do you need inspiration for yourself and your worship team?
    Are you looking for some new ideas and helpful tips?

    We have a resource just for YOU!
    Our worship blog is designed to be a resource for:
    * Worship Leaders and Pastors
    * Ministers of Music and Worship
    * Worship team members
    * People who love the Lord and want to worship Him!

    Posts on the topic of worship include:

    1. “Lifestyle Worship” (page focusing on giving God glory in all of life) http://​​lifestyle-worship/

    2. “Creative Worship Ideas (page, self-explanatory) http://​​m/creative-worship-ideas/

    3. “Worship ABC’s” (good as a reminder or even for a dramatic or media presentation in worship) post published Nov. 7, 2011

    4. “Worship Planning and Preparation” (a comprehensive guide, with lots of inspiration and things to consider) post published Jan. 26, 2012 http://​​m/2012/01/26/​worship-planning-and-preparatio​n/

    5. “Worship is Joy!” (post focusing on the joy of giving God praise when we worship Him for who He is) post published 1-31-2012

    6. “Understanding Worship” (post clarifying what it really means to worship God and how we often confuse priorities)

    7. “Worship in the New Testament” (post contrasting and comparing what we know about New Testament worship to current worship practices) http://​​m/2012/02/28/​worship-in-the-new-testament/

    In addition, our page entitled “Lift Your Voice” is an extensive resource page for worship related scriptures from both the Old and New Testaments. Check it out at http://​​m/lift-your-voice/

    We also have some great posts about a wide variety of topics, including avoiding burnout in ministry, music and healing, preparing for a choir recognition Sunday …and much more!

    We invite you to check out our Boydbrain Music blog today and hope that you will find both inspiration and information every time that you visit!

    Blessings to you in your life and ministry,

    Travis and Cynthia Boyd

    • Jonathan Stone
      March 20, 2012

      Travis and Cynthia, thanks for stopping by. And thanks for posting all of the links. I look forward to checking them out.


      • Thanks, Jonathan. I found your blog when looking for other posts on worship this morning, and I was blessed by your perspective on preparation for worship. I believe that people who are searching for posts about worship are either responsible for leading in worship in some way or are hungry for authentic and profound worship in their own lives. Thanks again for speaking to the desire deep within all of our hearts to connect with our God through worship that goes beyond Sunday morning.


  3. James
    March 20, 2012

    I have to admit, the first thing I thought of when I read your blog this morning was the ritual of the mayim achronim.

    • Jonathan Stone
      March 20, 2012

      Interesting article, James. Thanks for posting it.


  4. terry1954
    March 20, 2012

    i think the churches today are nothing like the gatherings jesus drew. there was nothing about how you dress, how much money is needed, etc etc. to me, the idea of worship in a church is more of a socializing. i can worship here at home, in the grocery store, at the mall, or in my closet. to me, it is what is in my heart, not what i wear on my face, or how my clothes look. do i sound sarcastic? maybe. maybe i am totally wrong. i find it difficult to fit into some of the churches today. i try not to diagnose myself anymore, i gave up. i know i believe in god, i am going to heaven, i talk to him daily. he is with me always

    • Jonathan Stone
      March 20, 2012

      Terry, I feel your pain. I spent nearly twenty years of my life hating church. I think there are several things that need to be teased out on this issue. Otherwise, things get conflated. First, when speaking of “worship” there is certainly a distinction between private, individual worship and public, corporate worship. There is a priority on the individual connection with God, which you alluded to. I skipped right to the corporate aspect in this post.

      Second, that does not mean that there is no role that God intends the church to have in our lives. I touch on this in a post I wrote entitled, Place. I think it’s worth a read if you want my perspective on it. And I think that we are wise to consider what the instruction of Hebrews 10:24-25 really means.

      If I am simply trying to “make it.” I can probably find enough spiritual food on my own to survive. But is that the posture that God desires for me? The bible tells me that I am part of His body, and that every part (including myself) has a purpose. That as a body we work together. And that the body is also called the Bride of Christ. If I am not connected to His body and do not love His bride, what does that reflect about my connection to Him?

      Like you said, this is not about a rule or requirement. This is about the heart. Where is my heart if I am unwilling to connect to with the rest of the body, to the Bride of Christ?

      I have to admit that this took a great humbling on my part to change my perspective. That does not mean that you are in the same place that I was at. But for me, it is impossible to read your comments and not wonder if you are speaking from that place–a place I know well. I trust you to discern which is the case. And no matter what the case may be, continue wrestling and continue clinging to Him. That is what is most important.


      • terry1954
        March 20, 2012

        i think that i am talking about a place i have been in for awhile. ever since my parents passed away, i find so much sadness within myself, that i find it hard to mingle in church. it is easier to stay home. u r so right on your reply though, and have caused me to think. i want to be a part of the body of christ, and although it makes me feel uncomfortable, i must go on. thank you for sharing your thoughts

      • James
        March 20, 2012

        I’ve “toyed” with the idea of going back to church but there are insurmountable obstacles involved. Even if I could find “the right church,” I’m not sure how my wife and daughter (who are Jewish) would take it.

  5. depreachersblog
    March 20, 2012

    This is lovely. My concern here is most believers want to be seen by others as true worshippers but God judges the heart. I ask people “what do you do in your closet?” My friend, that is the most important thing. Your relationship with God in your closet is what God is after. I believe when we have an intimate relationship with Him, our hearts would forever be ready to worship Him in spirit, and in truth.
    Jesus Christ the same Yesterday, today, and forever

  6. JR
    March 20, 2012

    Thanks Jonathan, this is a wonderful post.

  7. JR
    March 20, 2012

    Reblogged this on Shattered By Grace.

  8. Tahlitha Chadwick
    March 20, 2012

    As always, right on time. An all week preparation to enter into worship.
    Thanks Jonathan.

  9. Pieter Stok
    March 20, 2012

    … and THEN, imagine what the following week would be like when we out to serve God in all of life, empowered and invigorated by that communal worship!

  10. heroldsroses
    March 20, 2012

    Reblogged this on heftafarm.

  11. hodgepodge4thesoul
    March 21, 2012

    Reblogged this on Hodgepodge 4 the Soul and commented:
    Important aspect…

  12. godschick
    March 21, 2012

    As a worship leader and wife of a pastor/preacher, I just want to say that I enjoyed your post. One of my favorite scriptures that we have told our kids over and over is Psalm 122:1. My kids love going to church. We love worship. But, something happens when people come together and gather on a Sunday morning or Wednesday night and worship out of the overflow of what the Lord has been doing in their own lives all week–it is powerful. And, for those that come in to that environment who may not have ever experienced the presence of God, they touch something significant. I am also so thankful for all the people that serve in multiple capacities from parking attendants, to ushers, to sound, kids ministry, etc that make a worship experience possible. Everyone’s role is significant in the house of the Lord. Thank you for sharing. Blessed by your post!

  13. The Lords Anvil
    March 21, 2012

    This is a great article Johnathan. My wife and I have been leading praise and worship for around 25 years now. I have noticed that some times are just great, our spirit longs to praise and you can’t help but get caught up in worship and the presence of the Lord is so real you can almost touch him, while other times it seems the praises are heavy and laborsum, it seems we are just going through the motions and not really worshiping in “spirit and truth”. Your insights into preparing to worship are right on target as well as the verses that declare we must wash our hands and purify our hearts are instructing us as how to aproach a holy God. We have found that “giving thanks” is also necessary. I will enter his gates with thankgiving in my heart. Great article Johnathan and thanks to you for your labor of love here.

  14. ansuyo
    April 6, 2012

    Amen! Worship is an incredibly personal experience, even when shared with others. I am trying to teach my SS class about the importance of preparing for worship, watching for distractions, and surrendering fully to it. Very good post, and much needed! 🙂

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